[Absolut Speed]

My wife, who is just 29 years old, was diagnosed with breast cancer today (Thurs). She found a lump last Friday, had an examine Monday, a mammogram Tuesday and a biopsy today. She is scheduled to have a lumpectomy and more tests Friday at 6:30am.

This whole week has been one of misery in waiting. We kept telling ourselves that her odds were too small considering her age, but alas, she was part of that fractional percentage that are diagnosed in their 20's. So guys, make sure your wives, gfs, daughters are all keeping up with their checkups. We believe it was caught very early on, but we'll find out more tomorrow after they check the lymph nodes.

Worse, the doctor has told her she can't have children for 5 years due to the treatment, and that has just absolutely crushed her. Her parents are in shock and disbelief and aren't handling this too well. I've certainly got a lot on my plate.

[BigEnos]

Very sorry to hear Absolut.

My Mom is currently fighting her own battle with breast cancer. Almost 2 years from diagnosis of stage III and she's still here even without chemo. She's decided not to do chemo because of her age (67), that is a decision I completely support.

Early detection is the key, and it sounds like you have done everything you can so far.

The only advice I can give is to try not to look too far down the road because there is just too much unknown. Look only to the next "step" in the process of diagnosis and treatment if at all possible. You two will have tough days ahead for sure, but she is young and that is a benefit to her at this point.

Be strong, she'll need you. I will pray for you as I'm sure others will.