[Absolut Speed]

My wife, who is just 29 years old, was diagnosed with breast cancer today (Thurs). She found a lump last Friday, had an examine Monday, a mammogram Tuesday and a biopsy today. She is scheduled to have a lumpectomy and more tests Friday at 6:30am.

This whole week has been one of misery in waiting. We kept telling ourselves that her odds were too small considering her age, but alas, she was part of that fractional percentage that are diagnosed in their 20's. So guys, make sure your wives, gfs, daughters are all keeping up with their checkups. We believe it was caught very early on, but we'll find out more tomorrow after they check the lymph nodes.

Worse, the doctor has told her she can't have children for 5 years due to the treatment, and that has just absolutely crushed her. Her parents are in shock and disbelief and aren't handling this too well. I've certainly got a lot on my plate.

[trackbird]

Scott,

I hate to hear about bad things happening to good friends. When I was dating my high school sweetheart (for lack of a better term), her mother was diagnosed and treated for breast cancer. It wasn't my wife, but it was family and a difficult time for all. She made it through and has been doing great (this was 15 years ago). Early detection was the key and I can hope for you to have similar luck.

I wish her a speedy recovery.