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91Firebirdv6
post May 19 2007, 04:33 AM
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So I thought my dad was cool with me racing but apparently he isn't. He's even asked my what class I was racing and we've talked about it for some reason it's a problem now. He thinks I'm going to break something. Yes my car is old, but I keep up with maintenance.

What would be some good reasons why he should let me race?
There is an autocross on sunday so I've got a day to convince him.
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post May 19 2007, 08:37 PM
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"Dad, I understand your fears and I have a good healthy respect for this kind of thing. I see my friends racing their cars on the street and that scares me. this venue gives me a great outlet to mash the right pedal and do it in a safe and controlled environment. Only thing to hit is a cone."

"At these events, there are a lot of adults that are there to offer there help and tutoring to help me learn car and self control, both of which make me safer on the street."

"I would really enjoy you and mom coming along and seeing first hand just how safe and controlled the event is run. Meet the other drivers, the officials and see the safety standards they require. Maybe you will see something I'm over looking. Plus I could use the help in the pits."

As a parent, going at it from this angle tells me that you've thought it through, researched in thoroughly and aren't discounting the "fear factor". Parents typically don't want to limit their kids' growth and squelch their dreams. They weigh fear vs reward. So, acknowledge their fear and market the reward.
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91Firebirdv6   Urgent: Need help with parents   May 19 2007, 04:33 AM
AndyB   QUOTE (91Firebirdv6 @ May 18 2007, 11:33 ...   May 19 2007, 04:44 AM
sgarnett   If he's worried that you might break something...   May 19 2007, 10:33 AM
rpoz-29   Better yet, get him involved. When I ran my first ...   May 19 2007, 12:27 PM
rushman   Your best shot is to bring him along. If he is de...   May 19 2007, 12:32 PM
Spooner   QUOTE (rushman @ May 19 2007, 06:32 AM) Y...   May 19 2007, 04:55 PM
CMC #37   You may have to wait until you are 18 on this one ...   May 19 2007, 07:25 PM
mitchntx   "Dad, I understand your fears and I have a go...   May 19 2007, 08:37 PM
patred   Take your dad street racing and then take him to w...   May 20 2007, 02:13 AM
91Firebirdv6   QUOTE (patred @ May 19 2007, 09:13 PM) Ta...   May 20 2007, 03:34 AM
prockbp   if you have an outlet for aggressive driving like ...   May 20 2007, 02:49 PM
CMC #37   QUOTE (prockbp @ May 20 2007, 09:49 AM) i...   May 20 2007, 03:54 PM
TrackAddict   Also introduce him to men his age at the autocross...   May 20 2007, 06:14 PM
marka   Howdy, So is the primary reason he doesn't wa...   May 21 2007, 01:21 AM
z28tt   I'd say it also depends on who's paying fo...   May 22 2007, 12:08 PM
CrashTestDummy   Make sure he knows it is a timed event and you are...   May 22 2007, 04:21 PM
jensend   QUOTE (CrashTestDummy @ May 22 2007, 10:2...   May 23 2007, 01:12 PM
Jeff97FST/A   I was thinking about this thread yesterday while I...   May 23 2007, 02:11 PM

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