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|  Urgent: Need help with parents, He doesn't want me racing | 
|  May 19 2007, 04:33 AM 
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| newbie Group: Members Posts: 10 Joined: 10-April 07 From: Lincoln Ne & West DesMoines Ia Member No.: 1,755  | 
				So I thought my dad was cool with me racing but apparently he isn't. He's even asked my what class I was racing and we've talked about it for some reason it's a problem now. He thinks I'm going to break something. Yes my car is old, but I keep up with maintenance.  What would be some good reasons why he should let me race? There is an autocross on sunday so I've got a day to convince him. | 
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|  May 22 2007, 12:08 PM 
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| www.skulte.com   Group: Advanced Members Posts: 345 Joined: 26-October 04 From: W. Hartford, CT Member No.: 515  | 
				I'd say it also depends on who's paying for the car/insurance/repairs. If the car breaks down, and you're left borrowing their car to get to school/work, he's got a valid point. That being said, if you don't beat on the drivetrain at the starting line, autox will pretty much only wear down tires in the short term. I assume you're not doing track days, since that's much more brutal on the car's mechanicals. I think getting him involved is important. I used to invite my parents to the autoxes - they'd bring chairs and a picnic lunch, and hang out - neither one is a "car person", so it's just spending time with their kids, doing something fun. It's a great sport to get into, and teaches you a lot about car control (hey - that's another good one - if you know your car at the limit, you'll be able to save yourself on the street if it gets slick, someone cuts you off, etc...) and suspension/mechanicals. Andris | 
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 91Firebirdv6   Urgent: Need help with parents   May 19 2007, 04:33 AM
 91Firebirdv6   Urgent: Need help with parents   May 19 2007, 04:33 AM 
  AndyB   QUOTE (91Firebirdv6 @ May 18 2007, 11:33 ...   May 19 2007, 04:44 AM
 AndyB   QUOTE (91Firebirdv6 @ May 18 2007, 11:33 ...   May 19 2007, 04:44 AM 
  sgarnett   If he's worried that you might break something...   May 19 2007, 10:33 AM
 sgarnett   If he's worried that you might break something...   May 19 2007, 10:33 AM 
  rpoz-29   Better yet, get him involved. When I ran my first ...   May 19 2007, 12:27 PM
 rpoz-29   Better yet, get him involved. When I ran my first ...   May 19 2007, 12:27 PM 
  rushman   Your best shot is to bring him along.  If he is de...   May 19 2007, 12:32 PM
 rushman   Your best shot is to bring him along.  If he is de...   May 19 2007, 12:32 PM
 
  Spooner   QUOTE (rushman @ May 19 2007, 06:32 AM) Y...   May 19 2007, 04:55 PM
 Spooner   QUOTE (rushman @ May 19 2007, 06:32 AM) Y...   May 19 2007, 04:55 PM 
  CMC #37   You may have to wait until you are 18 on this one ...   May 19 2007, 07:25 PM
 CMC #37   You may have to wait until you are 18 on this one ...   May 19 2007, 07:25 PM 
  mitchntx   "Dad, I understand your fears and I have a go...   May 19 2007, 08:37 PM
 mitchntx   "Dad, I understand your fears and I have a go...   May 19 2007, 08:37 PM
 
  patred   Take your dad street racing and then take him to w...   May 20 2007, 02:13 AM
 patred   Take your dad street racing and then take him to w...   May 20 2007, 02:13 AM

 
  91Firebirdv6   QUOTE (patred @ May 19 2007, 09:13 PM) Ta...   May 20 2007, 03:34 AM
 91Firebirdv6   QUOTE (patred @ May 19 2007, 09:13 PM) Ta...   May 20 2007, 03:34 AM 
  prockbp   if you have an outlet for aggressive driving like ...   May 20 2007, 02:49 PM
 prockbp   if you have an outlet for aggressive driving like ...   May 20 2007, 02:49 PM
 
  CMC #37   QUOTE (prockbp @ May 20 2007, 09:49 AM) i...   May 20 2007, 03:54 PM
 CMC #37   QUOTE (prockbp @ May 20 2007, 09:49 AM) i...   May 20 2007, 03:54 PM 
  TrackAddict   Also introduce him to men his age at the autocross...   May 20 2007, 06:14 PM
 TrackAddict   Also introduce him to men his age at the autocross...   May 20 2007, 06:14 PM 
  marka   Howdy,
So is the primary reason he doesn't wa...   May 21 2007, 01:21 AM
 marka   Howdy,
So is the primary reason he doesn't wa...   May 21 2007, 01:21 AM 
  CrashTestDummy   Make sure he knows it is a timed event and you are...   May 22 2007, 04:21 PM
 CrashTestDummy   Make sure he knows it is a timed event and you are...   May 22 2007, 04:21 PM
 
  jensend   QUOTE (CrashTestDummy @ May 22 2007, 10:2...   May 23 2007, 01:12 PM
 jensend   QUOTE (CrashTestDummy @ May 22 2007, 10:2...   May 23 2007, 01:12 PM 
  Jeff97FST/A   I was thinking about this thread yesterday while I...   May 23 2007, 02:11 PM
 Jeff97FST/A   I was thinking about this thread yesterday while I...   May 23 2007, 02:11 PM|   | 
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